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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

MIA. Quick update as to why

Hey guys, I know I said I'd try to be better on posting more and now I've gotten worse.  Well, I have a reason.  On Sunday night, my nephew, Asiah, who was 20 months old was killed.  It's my husband's sister's son.  So we're back in New York to be with her and the rest of the family. 

She has 5 kids with this guy who is hands down the WORST person I have ever met.  When they were together he was abusive to her and to the kids.  He has like 4 other children with other women, some kids are the same age as my sister-in-laws kids.  One time he had told my husband and I that he put a curse on us and that he worked for the devil, which in my head I thought 'good thing I have someone better on my side'.  The news here has made it appear that he's a good man which he is most definitely now.

It wasn't him who did it though, it was her new boyfriend.  He says that the baby fell out of his crib but the police have called it was homicide.  My sister-in-law wasn't home when it happened so she doesn't really know what happened.  Though she said to me that she believes him.

I just am asking you guys to think of us and pray for us in this time.  It's the worst thing you can imagine.  Pray for her other children too.  Thanks guys. 

Here's a link to what they said on the news about it.
UPDATED: Schenectady toddler's death ruled a homicide - News 10 WTEN: Albany, New York News, Weather, Sports

19 comments:

  1. Ohh, that's just so sad. Your family must be devastated. I'm so sorry for your and your family's loss.

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  2. My deepest sympathies for your and you loved ones. I have no words that can express how incredibly sorry I feel for this.

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  3. OMG. I am so sorry for your family's loss. That poor baby. :(

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  4. I am so sorry, that is heartbreaking. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  5. I'll keep praying for you and your family. Stay strong.

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  6. I am so sorry sonja :( Thats terrible, My thoughts are with your family.

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  7. OMG Sonja my deepest sympathies! I will pray for you and your family! I know there is nothing I can do or say other than pray!!! Thinking of you!!!

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  8. omg this is horrible. I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

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  9. This is beyond devastating to hear, Sonja. I'm so sorry for your Sister-in-law, as well as your whole family for having to endure this awful ordeal. My thought are with you and yours.

    Sincerely,
    Meredith Jessica

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  10. Sorry to hear your sad news, my heart goes out to you and your family. Thinking of you all at this sad time.

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  11. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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  12. This is so sad. Thoughts and prayers from my family to yours

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  13. Oh girl....I'm so so SO sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I can't imagine losing a child. This just breaks my heart to hear.

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  14. I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family

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  15. my thoughts and prayers are with you & your family xx

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  16. oh im so sorry for your loss :( this is just awful... my thoughts are with your family x

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  17. I'm so sorry. It's horrible enough to have a tragedy like that happen, but I also can imagine how devastating it is for you to have someone you love so much continually make choices that hurt her. I'm just so sorry for you and your family.

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  18. oh my god, i am so sorry. that's so horrible and cruel, i can't even think about it. i have a daughter and this is so sickening. my prayers are most DEFINITELY with you... post when you're ready, and stay strong girl...
    xoxo M

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  19. Thank you all so much! I really appreciate your support. We're back home now so hopefully this will get easier as time goes on.

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